Minnie.
I really don't know what to do with Minnie. I just caught her peeing right outside her liter box again. She hasn't done that for several weeks. I guess I'll call the vet tomorrow. John just thinks she's old and can't see the box anymore. When I called the vet a few weeks ago they said there was a way they could give me something to get a urine sample from her without having to take her in. They said they thought it was strange that she was using the box during the day and not at night. She seems fine but I'll call tomorrow. I think she's drinking too much water and peeing a lot but John doesn't think so. Last night I came out of the bedroom and she was staring at the family room from the kitchen like we were in there. Maybe she can't see as well anymore.
I feel so bad for John. He has to take care of me and my cat. Sometimes I think I shoukd break up with him and put him out if his misery. He desereves more than this. I feel like a dried up 43 year old who can't have sex and be the girlfriend I was to him a year ago. Maybe it's just the depression talking.
I feel so bad for John. He has to take care of me and my cat. Sometimes I think I shoukd break up with him and put him out if his misery. He desereves more than this. I feel like a dried up 43 year old who can't have sex and be the girlfriend I was to him a year ago. Maybe it's just the depression talking.
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Don\'t listen to the lies of depression - they\'re terrible! If could be that Minnie has a urinary tract infection. How old is she? Does she seem to be drinking or eating more or less than before? I hope the vet knows what to do. Good luck to you and Minnie!!
HUGS, It\'s sad to feel like a dried up forty-something. Life can be as cruel as good as it is sometimes. Hang in there and know you are a worthy person weather you can have sex or not. I\'m sure he must see lots of good qualities in you or he wouldn\'t stick around. Try to go easy on yourself!!
Hugs, lovely. I imagine it feels odd needing his help so much right now. Life is weird and ironic, and being ill sucks big time. If we were only the sum of our health or sexual ability, well, idk, that\'s not how measure the people I love. Yeah, but being ill just stinks!
I hope your Minnie is alright xx