Men are mean. Dave & Rob went on about my weight yesterday.
Men are very mean. Both Rob (Dave's room mate) and Dave went on about my weight yesterday. Yes, I am 10 - 20 pounds over weight. I am happy the way I am at the moment and don't plan on changing. Dave and I got into a fight about it and I went home. Usually, I spend the night but not in this case. We have not talked since and it is 6:14 a.m. Dave is at work. I am not going to call him. I feel like he should apologize to me. We shall see if this is the end of our relationship or will we make up.
My heart is still numb. I loved Smokey wholly and completely. I feel like my heart is numb with his loss. I don't feel another man has been able to break that shell of mine that surrounds my heart, not even Dave.
Interesting developments and realizations from Diane Baillie
My heart is still numb. I loved Smokey wholly and completely. I feel like my heart is numb with his loss. I don't feel another man has been able to break that shell of mine that surrounds my heart, not even Dave.
Interesting developments and realizations from Diane Baillie
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If he can\'t accept you the way you are, then he doesn\'t deserve you. If you are happy with your weight then thats all that matters. I guess thats why I haven\'t looked for another relationship because I know, no one will care about me like my husband did. He accepted me anyway I was. Good luck.
You do not have to handle that kind of talk. That borders on emotial abuse. Please just be happy with who you are. You do not have to satisfy anyone but yourself. If you are happy with whom you are, girl, stuff the rest. I think what Dave said is so uncalled for. You deserve better. I do not think he is the one, if he was, he would have accepted you no matter what.
Huge Hugs
Karen