May crazies 1
I know I need to start documenting his episodes. I don't know where to really begin so I just start with the most recent:
May3 2015,
He's made accessing this site tricky. He's using our router to track our browsing history. I understand that. We have kids in the house. But he won't give me access to it. He types in the passcode for all of us. Told my son he couldn't know the codes because he's lied and cheated but he was looking at me when he said that. I pretended not to notice and went about my business.
About 10:15 he asked if I was coming to bed. I wasn't sure how I wanted to answer and I was almost to the bed when he asked so I didn't answer... I just got in bed. He got mad at me for not answering. Told me how disrespectful I am because he ALWAYS answers me. (Yeah right...maybe after I yell at him 5 times). I even played his dumb little game and apologized that I didn't answer like he wanted. Still wasn't good enough for him tonight. Then it was the no getting soft drinks. I've had some cash and a gift card from church, so I've bought some drinks. He even looked up my discover bill to prove to me I've gone to fast food for drinks since he told me not to go. He was wrong. I haven't put a drink on discover in a month. And I've even used my own money to buy him drinks. Then he said he doesn't want me getting any food out until I've saved up $5,000. You see I have the nicer car which requires more insurance so I cost us more money which entitles him to be free to spend more money on frivolous things that he wants. I'm not sure how I save up $5,000 when he only gives me about $2,300/month to live on. I've been doing good. Spending tight so I come in under that. I've been subbing to have extra...for food out, hotels when we travel for sports... But nope I'm suppose to use that and the money I earn doing "extra chores" for him to save up $5,000. I told him he needed to pay for me to go to nursing school but that just made him angrier. We recently built a new house and our previous house hasn't sold. If I would just sell the other house I could make up the loss of income. Apparently it's all my fault we haven't sold the other house or rented it. It's all on me, although we've had offers he's refused. I told him I was sorry I made him build this house and I wish we hadn't. He thinks it's a God thing. I disagreed.
May3 2015,
He's made accessing this site tricky. He's using our router to track our browsing history. I understand that. We have kids in the house. But he won't give me access to it. He types in the passcode for all of us. Told my son he couldn't know the codes because he's lied and cheated but he was looking at me when he said that. I pretended not to notice and went about my business.
About 10:15 he asked if I was coming to bed. I wasn't sure how I wanted to answer and I was almost to the bed when he asked so I didn't answer... I just got in bed. He got mad at me for not answering. Told me how disrespectful I am because he ALWAYS answers me. (Yeah right...maybe after I yell at him 5 times). I even played his dumb little game and apologized that I didn't answer like he wanted. Still wasn't good enough for him tonight. Then it was the no getting soft drinks. I've had some cash and a gift card from church, so I've bought some drinks. He even looked up my discover bill to prove to me I've gone to fast food for drinks since he told me not to go. He was wrong. I haven't put a drink on discover in a month. And I've even used my own money to buy him drinks. Then he said he doesn't want me getting any food out until I've saved up $5,000. You see I have the nicer car which requires more insurance so I cost us more money which entitles him to be free to spend more money on frivolous things that he wants. I'm not sure how I save up $5,000 when he only gives me about $2,300/month to live on. I've been doing good. Spending tight so I come in under that. I've been subbing to have extra...for food out, hotels when we travel for sports... But nope I'm suppose to use that and the money I earn doing "extra chores" for him to save up $5,000. I told him he needed to pay for me to go to nursing school but that just made him angrier. We recently built a new house and our previous house hasn't sold. If I would just sell the other house I could make up the loss of income. Apparently it's all my fault we haven't sold the other house or rented it. It's all on me, although we've had offers he's refused. I told him I was sorry I made him build this house and I wish we hadn't. He thinks it's a God thing. I disagreed.
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