Lying

I have lied about many things in my life, from small things to great big lies.  This has really impacted my marriage of almost 24 years and has destroyed any trust my wife has had in me! I have tried unsuccesfully to stop this by sheer willpower and have failed everytime.  I am reaching out here in hopes rebuilding my life and my relationship with my wife. I am interested in hearing from anyone about their experiences and work they have done on rebuilding theirs lives!