Lost my husband who died with no will & 2 estranged daughters

My husband passed away Nov. 15, 2009 without a will and with two estranged daughters.  It is not easy.  I had to see a lawyer to get a Letter of Administration which will take 2 1/2 months.  Alll the paperwork is not easy at all.  What I don't like is that if I sold the apartment and there was no debts (Ha ha there is lots) I would get $65,000 and the rest would be divided up with his two estranged daughters.  I was with my husband for ten years and there was no contact with his two daughters.  It makes me sad and angry at the same time.  It would have been easier and better for me if my husband had made a will.  We talked about it a lot but that is where is stayed, no action.  Meanwhile, I am not working, having to deal with the grief and all the paperwork involved.  I am not really happy and I probably will get angry.  I wish someone could do it all for me but I don't think anyone can.  Grrrr....!  Mourning and anger make a dangerous combination.  I find I am not as patient any more and people are more irriatating to me.  I just want to hibernate but we can't always do what we want.  Has anyone else gone through this experience or is it just me?