Loss of my husband

It is January 3, 2009 Sunday and it is going on two months since my husband died.  I am having good days and bad days, which is stretching a bit longer between the two.  Time is the best healer but one never heals from the loss but learns to live with the loss.  There is nothing we can do when someone we love or care dies or passes away either suddenly, long sickness, an accident or any which way.  We are truly never ever prepared for the reality of it all.  No one can really help you.  Time and faith in the Lord are the best healer.  There are people who never fully recover from their own loss, which makes it a double tragedy.