Lord Lord Lord

can i learn more and grow more by staying in this difficult marriage?  this is not only about my comfort.  it is about being an example and about my life being for God's glory.  too many Christian marriages end in divorce.  With the Lord on our side we shd b able to cooperate and stay 2gether.  for God's glory not ours.  It grieves my soul that divorce shd b a part of my history and my children's.  How do I explain that 2 children of God can not make a marriage work?  How do I say trust the Lord when the we cant even stay 2gether.  trust each other.  trust God 2 bind us 2gether.  I don;t know what im doing here.  i guess im just standing.  i know i can get a divorce but i think it does more for God's kingdom 2 stay married.
i feel.....im not sure how i fl, but i think i know what i must do.  May i b able 2 differentiate bet God's voice and others.  may i know my fathers voice.  may i know my shepherds voice.  may i b obedient.  amen