Life can really be hard at times

 I got got finished chatting with one of my friends on here, and she told me here husband died in a motorcycle accident on Friday. She just got married a few months ago. Boy, what a terible thing to happen. She just seemed like things were starting to go good, and now this happens. What a rough one that is. And I thought I had it rough. Geeze, there really is a lot of pain in life, and it's never easy. I hate when things like this happen to good people. I do believe that there is a purpose somehow in it. I also belive that when we do die we do go to a better place, where we can finally have real peace with God. i wish I could take the pain away, but unfortunately life isn't that way. We all have our paths to follow, and our pains to go through. All I can do is pray for her, and try to be a friend to her. I hope somehow she can find some kind of peace with it, but that will take time. I often wish that I had someone to be with, but things like this scare me a lot. I've never been too good with close people dieing. Might sound selfish, but when my wife died I was kinda thankfull that we weren't together. I think if we were still together, that would have killed me. Sometimes I think that's why I have a hard time letting people into my life. I just get scared that they might go someday, and I'de be alone again. Even my cats I worry about. They are still very young, but sometimes I think about the day when they might leave. I know we all have to go at some point, but it is something that does scare me. I guess all we really can do is try to love each other, and be good while we are here. All we ever have is this moment right now. We never know what's going to happen in the next moments. We need to try and be the best we can now. Later might be too late. Lord, I do pray for Jenn, and the others in her family, as well as her husbands. I pray that you help them through their grief, and not let them be angry. I pray you give them the strength and courage that they need to get through this. Give them comfort through your love, and help their hearts to heal. Take this man into your home, and give him everlasting peace. Thank you Lord. Amen.