Liberating truth
How about this. I'm sexually immature because I don't want to engage in any risky sexual behavior according to a term used by the younger crowd. That's OK. Can't please everybody nor ought I want to. Others describe me as being a virgin. Well, that may be true by their definition also. Either way it's a good time to say "join them. They can't be beat." But that is OK. I'm a one woman guy. But even then trust can be an issue. So adaptation is the key. I have decided that women are better because of their desire for faithfulness ,in the case of those who do.....those born at the same time as me. The guys are just looking for a sex object more often then not, as do some women. I have reached an age where bisexuality is not so cool. I live near the GAY Capital of the world.....but all there are is places for sex and bars. Those are not my biggest interests. Also it is being felt by the GAY men my age that they'll have to go back into the closet if they want to survive in a seniors' establishment. Not a great future. And the partners are less numerous for longterm relationships at an older age. But that is the same thing with hetrosexuality in my case because of all the narcissism recieved by the many French Nationalists and there are not many English people around. But still I'll follow my instincts as mentionned above. I was messed up pretty bad by a certain set of circumstances. Sooooooo women may be attractive. But if they abuse(d) kids that is kind of a deal breaker. Child and animal abuse are horrendous. So imagine having the most beautiful lady by your side who abuses and feels she has done nothing that requires an apology. NOPE. The advantages of being "sexually immature".
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where do you describe this homosexual capital of the world? I would think San Francisco but there could be others.....out on Guam it is the Island homosexual mecca....I had 5 people I know who had Aids back then when I lived there and two transexual girls who had the entire surgery....but I personally will take my time with sexuality too....I am not a virgin but I am cautious as I do not seek the women out for sexuality but more for personality....and looks make or break some deals of course for me....
Montreal, Quebec is the Gay Capital of the world. GLBT persons from all over, including the United States wind up there in the summer time. Not much goes on in the winter time. But it is a going concern come summer. A lot more tolerance there and more liberality. And GLBT persons are protected under the Human Rights Act and are allowed to marry and adopt children. Attacking GLBT persons based solely on their sexual orientation is frowned upon fiercely. Having said all that, Many GAYS anyway, feel more at ease in the GAY village then in other parts of Montreal. As for women, I don't worry about looks as much as I do personality. Personality is the deal breaker for me. Not that I deserve to have a woman in my life, mind you.
your not closeted gay are you?
No. I'm bisexual.But I won't want to travel to places that are against homosexuals. I am not interested in being beaten up or killed.... unless I have a girl friend. But either way travel to those places is too expensive for me. As for the rest, I'm against bigotry in all forms so why would I want friends who are bigotted against GLBT persons?