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after the last few days and the things that have happened, i feel its best to have a time out from ds.
i dont know how long, but im also having a time out from everything.
the things that have being said and not even a sorry, just demands isnt helping me, i'm nice and friendly to everyone, couldnt give a crap whos friends with whom, i just rather not deal with it.
i have some wonderful friends through ds and if they want i'm happy to email, text or phone, like i do with the most wonderful bff's i have met through ds and through other people intrducing me.
my ex was friends with a few people and i met them and now we are great friends and they want nothing to do with me, so i must be nice.
if anyone wants to email me free to message me on ds and i will message you in morning.
i hope when i return i will be welcome.
over and out.
xxoo
i dont know how long, but im also having a time out from everything.
the things that have being said and not even a sorry, just demands isnt helping me, i'm nice and friendly to everyone, couldnt give a crap whos friends with whom, i just rather not deal with it.
i have some wonderful friends through ds and if they want i'm happy to email, text or phone, like i do with the most wonderful bff's i have met through ds and through other people intrducing me.
my ex was friends with a few people and i met them and now we are great friends and they want nothing to do with me, so i must be nice.
if anyone wants to email me free to message me on ds and i will message you in morning.
i hope when i return i will be welcome.
over and out.
xxoo
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My dear friend Sophie what happened, I am here for you if you want to chat with me. I will message you ok, just want you to know I am here for you. Hugsxx
We will miss you!
Soph I know where to find you and will my dear.
I am so sorry it seems you have been drawn into this round of DS bs. For a site that is supposed to be of comfort, and usually is, at times it is like HS and I understand that you have been there and done that. Please PM me any time as those alerts show up in my email. I hope the problem \"graduates\" and you can come back soon.
Hugs,
Barbara
I am sorry you have been going through a bad time on here.Just delete,block or ignore them.There are so many people on here who will help you and support you.Those who dont do not deserve your friendship or thoughts.
sorry to hear you are being trolled. it always amazes me when it happens on this site, since its a SUPPORT site. no one should be saying anything to upset anyone. the whole point of being on here is support. if they don\'t have something good to say, they should NOT say anything at all.
if it makes you feel any better trolls happen to a LOT of people, even here. some people even close their accounts and start again as a private account. i found out last year i was being trolled by two people one for three years (she told me this herself! so no reason not to believe it). and the other from other people letting me know. still shocked about that one and need to address it.
three years ago i was trolled by two people i didn\'t even know, but one of those two was the one who revealed herself last year as a three year troll and said she had been on here through multiple id\'s and kept getting in trouble. i guess she still has multiple id\'s so its hard to see who is who, though i have tried to watch out when i get a new friend request, how do you know? you look for clues in their style of writing, their photos and style of photos, stuff like that. it doesn\'t always work though and you shouldn\'t have to be vigilent on a support site.
another person told me some of the trolls on here have as many as 20 or more avatars. he had to get rid of one, and discovered the person had like 21 avatars so it took him about a year to get rid of that troll. hope it works out for you! xxoo
dearest sophie , it saddens me that we didnt become closer while u were here and we were on each others friends list . please lets change that if u decide to return . it has been an incredible experience getting to no friends at ds who have become such a big part of my heart . i m so sorry for any pain anyone here has caused u . to think that anything of this sort can happen in our compromised state is evil . please no if u need a shoulder our mutual friends can vouch for me . i would be glad to help when u r hurting or just would like to talk . may god watch over u now and always .. warmly , barri
smile and laugh...........hugs, support, respect and TLC.........if you need a break take one, if you need to hit ignore or delete or block don\'t hesitate either.......everyone at some point or other has had some run ins with people who seem to project friendship, but are often too ill/mixed up or confused to know how to be a friend. we have to protect our own spirits from people who either intentionally or because of their illness threaten our own sense of well being..............always remember that just like in life people are not always who or what they seem. it takes time to establish trust and respect, and some people are not supportive, respectful of boundaries or lend kindness or care to the best life you need...................tend to your bruises and relight the fuses so you can come back to us......................xxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
I hate it has gotten to this point for you. Take a break if you need. Take care of you first. Will message you, my contact info.
comforting hugs, sent with our love, and our very best positive healing energy. Hi Sophie. i\'m so sorry, that you are experiencing a rough time. we\'re here for you, and sending our best healing energy, hoping, and praying that you are ok, and feel much better, very soon. :) keeping you and your family in our thoughts, prayers, and in our hearts. :) wishing you well, and hoping you have a peaceful day. :) Take all the time you need :)
So sorry this is happening to u please come back soon.
Thinking of u,
love,
Angel
HELLO SOPHIE ,DO HAVE A BREAK AND REST, FORGET THOSE THAT CAUSES YOU PROBLEMS AND AVOID THEM LIKE POISON, SO SORRY I HAVE BEEN BUSY, MY LITTLE DOG WAS POORLY AND SATURDAY PASSED, HOPE THAT YOU WILL COME BACK AND I AM ALWAYS YOUR FRIEND, LOVE LUCY..