kind of weird
Ok.. kind of weird....... Last night of COURSE.. hubby came into the bedroom and asked for sex.... I wanted to seriously bang my head on the computer desk in frustration... I mean seriously HOW many times must I go over this topic with him? Of Course .......I just looked at him dumbfounded and went over the WHOLE issue again... (tiptoeing on the topic cause I didnt want to piss him off).... he tends to get mad over this topic.... soooo he walked away muttering.. something.. believe me I didnt call him back into the room to see what it was... Well this morning... He just called me... (He actually let the girls sleep in.. x-mas break.. and got them ready and took them to daycare... ) and said Do they sell depression pills over the counter..... I just sat there.... and got a little quiet ...... like I always do when I dont know what to say.... and I said "Ummm no not legally.. U have to go to a doc.... to a therapist.................... " how many times do I HAVE to go over this topic also... JEEZ.... its not hard to do..... sure its hard at first admitting u are having a problem.. but no one is there to judge u... u know? soooo gosh.... now what? do I try to talk him into going to talk to someone whether that is a doc or therapist tonight when I get home.. I know they say .. that he has to make the first step... and I cant do it for him.. but is this a call out for help or not?
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Hard to tell... it can be a feeble attempt on your sympathies... who\'s to say he will walk the walk... only you know him to that extent. I would provide the information- to test the waters he\'s swimming in- then see if he drowns in his own bull-shit- or he actually goes another step... But, I think you already know what he will do... play it safe- that way in your heart you know you tried and he could never accuse you of not giving a damn...
I think he is saying it to string you along, you know, make you think that things , might get better in the future. I don\'t think he will ever go to a therapist and if he ever did he would never talk about anything important.