Kids Rant
This has nothing to do about me hating kids or hating adults with kids. I don't hate anyone at all. I just need to vent/rant somewhere as to why I don't want kids. I'm so tired of people pushing this subject on me, I'm not gonna change my mind, no matter how hard they try to.
When I was young I was so terrified that I had to be a mom when I grew up, since that's all the adults talked about when I was younger. Then as I got older I eventually understood that it's a choice. Some people want kids and some people don't.
I have alot of heath issues and so does my bf and I don't wanna doom all of that on someone. This world isn't the greatest place to live because future generations are gonna have to live in a world with even less resources than there are already. I would be terrible being pregnant, since I have terrible hormone problems already. I would be terrible taking care of some living being that needs me for every little thing, because I would get irritated and just ignore it, that's just how I am. I don't live with my bf, I don't have the money or the time right now, since I'm so busy. I'd like to not give up my career or life plans. I don't do well under stress and pressure.
I want my life to be as peaceful as possible. I'd also like to mainly spend time with my family, friends, and my bf. I'd like to be able to do last minute things with no problem at all. I don't wanna interact with other parents and other kids and schools and teachers.
I just don't have any mindset of raising someone and being in their presence for 18+ years. Parenthood is not easy. Every parent around my age that I've talked to always look like they are gonna pass out any second because of their kid. The child changes your life completely and I'm just starting to live my life. I dont want my life to stop in place for 18+ years just to raise someone.
I just don't want a child in my life because I don't see any point in having one. I wanna go to concerts, conventions, movies, other countries, disneyland, and other places whenever I want. I wanna be able to sleep in on my days off and just cuddle with my bf in bed all day if we felt like it. I want as little stress as possible because i have anxiety issues and if I get too stressed I get sick and could have a heart attack.
Luckily my bf understands that I dont want any kids of any kind and he doesnt feel like taking care of someone for 18+ years either.
Anyway, my rant is over. Basically, I don't want kids and no ones gonna make me.
When I was young I was so terrified that I had to be a mom when I grew up, since that's all the adults talked about when I was younger. Then as I got older I eventually understood that it's a choice. Some people want kids and some people don't.
I have alot of heath issues and so does my bf and I don't wanna doom all of that on someone. This world isn't the greatest place to live because future generations are gonna have to live in a world with even less resources than there are already. I would be terrible being pregnant, since I have terrible hormone problems already. I would be terrible taking care of some living being that needs me for every little thing, because I would get irritated and just ignore it, that's just how I am. I don't live with my bf, I don't have the money or the time right now, since I'm so busy. I'd like to not give up my career or life plans. I don't do well under stress and pressure.
I want my life to be as peaceful as possible. I'd also like to mainly spend time with my family, friends, and my bf. I'd like to be able to do last minute things with no problem at all. I don't wanna interact with other parents and other kids and schools and teachers.
I just don't have any mindset of raising someone and being in their presence for 18+ years. Parenthood is not easy. Every parent around my age that I've talked to always look like they are gonna pass out any second because of their kid. The child changes your life completely and I'm just starting to live my life. I dont want my life to stop in place for 18+ years just to raise someone.
I just don't want a child in my life because I don't see any point in having one. I wanna go to concerts, conventions, movies, other countries, disneyland, and other places whenever I want. I wanna be able to sleep in on my days off and just cuddle with my bf in bed all day if we felt like it. I want as little stress as possible because i have anxiety issues and if I get too stressed I get sick and could have a heart attack.
Luckily my bf understands that I dont want any kids of any kind and he doesnt feel like taking care of someone for 18+ years either.
Anyway, my rant is over. Basically, I don't want kids and no ones gonna make me.
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