Just vent!!
So my CS just left to go hang out with some girls from work for the day since the girls only camping trip was cancelled due to weather. She asked me if it would be ok if she went camping this was about two weeks ago. Emphasis that it was a girls only weekend! I agreed that it maybe good for her to go. Plus it would allow for each of us to demonstrate trust and honesty to one another. Then when she got home from work last night I found out that a male co-worker and my W are going to ride together from our house. So when did this change from a girls only weekend activity. Just got to vent!! I can't worry about what she will do when she is doing her own thing I just hope the "fog"doesnt roll back in!
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You\'re in a tough spot. I think sometimes this stuff happens and it is like everyone gets stuck in a role. She tries to push the boundaries and you are stuck trying to figure out where she is pushing them. The more you try, the more she tries to find ways around it.
Im not sure what advise I can give. It sounds like your spouse will keep pushing the boundaries. The honesty thing is what you will be the real challenge. If there is a work retreat that has men & women, you need to know. She may need to go for career advancement but needs to be honest about that