Just a flow of words coming out

I just don't get it or understand it. I had a blow out with my brother as he decided to blame me on never talking to him and burning the bridge on being close siblings. I had to make him realize it's not only my fault, to quit pointing a finger at me as it is a 2 way street. I am able to accept the things I've done and take responsibility in my own actions yet they refuse to and always push all the blame on me. Then when I do talk or try to talk to them more, they ignore me? Sorry but wtf is wrong with my family! This tends to go on and on and I already had to cut a couple of members permanently for my own health issues. I give my brother a chance an he does the same thing. They all have it in their head that I only make contact when I want something, yeah, I want something alright, that is to talk and to understand why the family is the way they are towards me. Sure I have made mistakes, everyone has but to constantly punish someone for the rest of their life for it is just inhumane in my books. I think it is best for me to cut my losses and not beat my head around the bush. After all, my health is more important to me than my mothers side of the family and I'm not about to give up the fight in my health. I can't say that karma will make its rounds but I can say that I hope they will let the creator into their lives so that they may become whole again and at peace within themselves. I know the creator has plans for us all and will help us on our journey if we allow it. I have faith in the creator as I have felt a sense of peace about me that I have never felt before this past yr. Even with all the health issues, all the emptiness, sadness and loneliness, my life has taken a turn that I can't describe except for an unusual sense of peace.