June 13, 2011

I'm 61 today and for the last two or more weeks I have been so emotional.
Crying at the drop of a hat. A friend casually mentioned Hawaii and I was bawling as the last two times there was with my beautiful husband.
I miss my Beloved Pat terribly, when oh when, does the hurt lessen?
I am 4 days from 15 months.
Hugs to all,
Wendy

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DianeMTB
DianeMTB

The crying after 4 days from 15 months is all part of the healing process. The longer and closer that you have been together, the longer it takes for the inward healing to take place. You were together for a long time. Give yourself a break. Take it as it comes. The pain, hurt and crying will eventually become less and less. HAPPY BIRTHDAY from Diane B.
rene4ever
rene4ever

Wendy,
I am at 15 months and 2 days. I wish there was an end point to this hurt. I have days that are still very painful. Just keep thinking of good memories and someday I hope and pray that the painful feelings lesson as we learn to live with them. I am not sure they ever go away but I have pray become less sharp.
Peace to you today.
Dave
deleted_user
deleted_user

Wendy,
I want to wish you a Happy Birthday. About the sadness.... not really sure what to say. I\'m at 11 months and some days are pretty good and I think I am doing really well..... and WHAMO... I get hit with the tears and floods of memories.....
I pray your days will improve and wlll experience more happy days and be filled with God\'s peace.
Hugs, Linda
1Patriciann
1Patriciann

I hope you know some comfort on this, your birthday. I know it is not a \'happy\' birthday for you but I hope you have rest and comfort on this day.

Instead of \'happy\' I will simply say may you have a \'good\' birthday.

((hugs)) Patricia
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hugs! Yesterday, we turned 52. We were very depressed but not because we missed anyone or the age; we were just sad and cried. Please accept my 61 (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs to you))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
deleted_user
deleted_user

I wish you a day full of good thoughts and things. My birthday is this month and it is the first one without Duane. Seems all wrong - God bless today and always - Jean