Journal for March 7, 2011
Haha! So this guy with the anger problem that I journaled about last time. I have been avoiding him. When he does text me I am very cordial...I don't want to resort to name calling or anything thing like he has been doing to me. I guess he is back in the "everything is fine mood" again. News to me that we made up. I received a text from him today stating that he was worried about me. He hasn't heard from me in a while. I said I hadn't heard from him either. lol Anyway supposedly he texted me on Saturday to ask me out to the movies...Funny thing is my phone says the last text I received from him before today was on friday...Nothing about asking me out. This guy is weird and at this point I may be worried that I have another stalking on my hands. I told him any important things he needs to tell me should be exchanged by yahoo from now on. But what I really wanted to say was...Move on and leave me alone! I'm worried that when I finally do have the courage to tell him this, he will explode like a storm with insults and such like he does whenever he gets mad. So I was hoping that avoiding him would make him figure it out on his own...But apparently he just welcomes himself back in by sending me imaginary text messages =( Oh boy.
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I say tell the guy off. If he does start spitting out insults, just ignore him. Literally, out him on ignore. Delete/block his number and ignore him on yahoo. You shouldn\'t have to put up with that.
Sorry I didn\'t see this earlier.
Reading the reply above, I agree totally... if you don\'t want him in your life, there is no reason for you to have him in your life! It\'ll be his problem, it is his fault, you were lovely (from the conversations you posted) if he is rude/ agressive and insulting, well you don\'t need him in your life and truly (I know how hard it is to believe) you deserve better.
I don\'t really know, I am rubbish with phones, but if you didn\'t get the message at all then it probably wasn\'t sent... although I have had similar happen to me in the past... I don\'t know it, it was a totally different situation, but I felt hurt that they didn\'t believe me, but seeing their side of things, I understand that they were annoyed that I hadn\'t spoken to them! Blah modern communication is so fraught with difficulties!
Anyway, I hope from your last message you\'ve moved on and found someone amazing instead :-D