Joe is in the hospital

I won't be doing much with the recipe book for a few days at least. 
Joe was complaining about a tickle in his throat, and then a scratchy throat.  Yesterday it got worse so he went to see his doctor who prescribed antibiotics.  He came home and went to bed.  He would get up and take sips of water but it really hurt.  Around suppertime he came out and his voice was awful - sort of squeaky and he seemed short of breath.  I asked him if he would let me call my neighbour to take him to the ER.  He agreed so I knew he was sick.  When the neighbours saw him, they said I should call the ambulance.  We did and it was a good thing.  I guess he has a large abscess on the left side of his neck that was getting bigger.  The paramedic was afraid it would cut off his airway.  So off we went to the hospital.  You get looked after pretty quickly when there is a chance of airway obstruction!  After doctors, resident doctors, nurses, Respiratory Therapists saw him and he had been given drugs by IV and inhalation therapy, and had a cat scan and chest X-ray, they decided he should go to the OR and have it lanced.  But after surgery, he would have to go to intensive care because they would have him intubated.  They want to make sure the abscess does not fill up again.  The doctor today said it could be better in a day or 2 or 2 weeks! 
He is heavily sedated, though they cut back a bit on his sedative for a bit so he woke up.  He is intubated so can't talk.  He tried to tell me something but I just didn't get it.  He even tried sign language - but I never learned it! 
They were not sure how extensive the surgery would be so they cut off his beard.  He looks so scruffy!  For those who know him,  he is much scruffier than usual - shaved but not at all well done!
Lisa:  Keep a watch over your dad.  When I saw him, so many memories came back.  The main one is being in the ICU with you.  Dad has not shaved since the time he came home clean shaven and shocked me at 1 am.  I screamed and started to laugh.  You came out - took one look at him and began screaming.  He had to stay clean shaven for the summer as he had a job that required a smooth face.  You never did warm up to him until he grew it back.  I miss you always and love you forever, Mummy

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Livingjuicy
Livingjuicy

Healing hugs and much love to you both. Life changes in a heartbeat and I\'m so very grateful that he is being cared for. Now, you take care of yourself dearest Marlene.

Keep us posted!
Loving care,
XO Joanie
MomofJosh
MomofJosh

Sending love, prayers, positive thoughts for you and Joe! Take care of you!
NellW
NellW

Sending all the love and positive thoughts that I can for you and Joe!! Hoping everything will be ok and I know Lisa is right there with you both....Nell
annsullivan
annsullivan

sending lots of healing thoughts and prayers your way. Hope Joe feels better soon. Hang in there Marlene....Hugs, Ann
jmk1973
jmk1973

Wow!! That is a scarey condition, if it can close off his airway!! I am so glad that you called an ambulance, for him!! Yes, maybe a pen and paper will help, when he is not so sedated. I hope he gets better soon!! Take care of yourself!!

(((HUGS))), Julia
saltwatercowgirl
saltwatercowgirl

Oh how scary for you - and Joe. Praying for a speedy recovery. It\'s so hard when memories come flooding back - it takes our breath away,. I\'m so sorry.
((((hugs))))) Vicki
KellyLee105
KellyLee105

Oh No Marlene, I am sorry for this scare of what is happening to Joe, my prayers are deeply with you Marlene and Joe.. Love and hugs and I\'ll be praying for him, XO Kelly
Reunion
Reunion

Marlene, that is pretty shocking about your husband Joe and the suddenness of his illness. Just no time to prepare when sudden things are going onthankfully he\'s getting good medical attention and sounds like he\'ll soon be on the mend. Good thing you convinced him to seek care! Love to you and Lisa, Donna
bunnyturbo
bunnyturbo

Thank goodness he agreed to go to hospital, men can be so stubborn sometimes. I\'m sure that\'s when you knew he was bad off. HUGS to you and joe & his fast recovery. Mari
dougadoug
dougadoug

How very scary. Praying for a speedy recovery. Sue xo
Angela-Town
Angela-Town

wow. poor guy! hope he heals and can go home soon.
MomofJosh
MomofJosh

Still sending, love, prayers, well wishes!
KandL
KandL

Sending love and prayers for Joe and you!
shorty41
shorty41

Hope your Hubby is doing well, it\'s scary when things come on fast, prayers for you and Joe!!
PLA58
PLA58

I do hope Joe is doing better. That was very scary ! I sorry it has taken me a while to get back on DS, life is very busy between grandies and hubby.
Keep us informed in between recipes and Joe.
Love
Penny