ITS NO BIG DEAL BUT WHY?
Hi all . I know I may not be alone with what Im about to say but I have noticed that less folk have read my jurnals ect . more have read non & so on. If I t have said some thing that sounded wrong ect or directed at any one then it was not intentional. Some times\ when we have something that troubles us ect we may need to say it in the only best way we can. Some times it comes\over in a negative way ect.When we go to see our doctor. The doctor needsto know as much as we can telll about what is wrong or how we are being efected by what ever it is. Staying quiet gets no where. Some times what we say may be verry imbarising ect to say but it needs to be said. Im sure many of us have been there before . Maybe in some way some of us still are.ect. We state a bit about our sufferings ect on here in relevent ways so that is one step towards trying to solve the symtomes. Talking about it with out feer of any negative re action ect. We ned to feel we all have a place where we can do that. Some folk find it very dificult to say some of the things some of us find the stamena toso maybe even with out knowning it we could be doing it for them to depending on what it is. I know I have been asking for sertain kinds of help out with that of what we are all here for so in that way I do take the blaim for that. But its not about who is to blaim ect or who is not. Its about all of us doing what we can to help one another. In the UK there is meant to be Freedom of Speach for all. We can & do allchoos how we see things & what we take out of them.Visual or verbal. But its about trying to see the positive side no matter how hard. This way is one big way of moving forwards & realy helping more folk & each other. Our selfs included. I am not Mr Perfect nor inocent in this but. Its not about any one even me finding fault about any one. Its about bringing the symtoms to the atension of others so the more who know of them the more folk may be able to do some thing relevent logical & positive to help. DAILY STRENTH is the name of this site. That cn have many meanings but all positive. It takes us all to make that be so. Yes there are ways that we do do that but ther is still room for improvements. I am not just saying this fore my own sake.. Some one has to voice it though.. Thank you all & take care..
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My computer has not been up to speed and neither have I. I do value your frienship but I have not heard from you either. The DS e-mail notification was down for a while so I am sure that has something to do with it. I look forward to reading more jurnols from you as well as a note here and there.You have a good night and Bless You.
Hi ..Yes . As I say Im not faultless with this either. I know I have not been in contact with some folk here. There has been so manty things o going on in my offf line world. I have with out choice had to deal with them if & how I could ect single handedly so this too has not helped even when it comes to relevent things conected with DS. Some of my jurnals state what has been going on ect. All I can do is say Im sorry too. Im trying to do all things yesterday as they say lol. Trying to make many good things happen for many folk encluding my self too . I wil try to contact more of you as & when & how I can. Once they get the live cghat problem sorted it too will help. Thank you all & take care.. Graham.
I really do not think you have said anything that offends anyone. I mostly focus on MS people just because DS is toooo big to get to know everyone. I hope this does not bother you. Some people just have different needs and it sometimes takes a while. Maybe if you visit some people and read their journal and it relates to you, you could comment on it. Good luck to you! Take care! Clare
I am not sure I understand what you mean. I am dense sometimes when it comew to people. I am not real good at the whole people or making friends easily.Sometimes I read journals and shoose not to comment, because I don\'t have the same view on some things that others do. Like getting messages from the dead. I do not presume that it does not happent to others, but it has happened to me, and I was raised in a strict Southern Baptist home, and they teach against that. I do not say it is not real, I just do not know because I have not had an experience, Maybe I am noy open to one, because of my up bring.I was also told if you do not have something good to say, don\'t say anything. I hope I have never hurt anyone\'s feelings with a reply or the lack of one.I know everyone has diffrent beliefs and expierence and it shapes who and what we are and what we believe. I belive DS has been a gift to me. All of you a gift also. I have learned much and grown much. I am better because of DS.I love and respect you and I admire your insite and strength. If I have ever hurt you, I apologize. I never meant to . Love,Peggy
Hi Clair. yes I do that already. i read profiles of others & then coment ect should I think I can but even if it is not much or at all in most or any way mirrored to my profile ect. For example . There are things you may be going through Or have gone through that I have not yet. I say yet as no one knows what is a head of them. Peggy You have never said a thing to hurt me ect. To a point I too try to go by the rule as you do That (If yiou can not say some thing good ect about people then say nothing at all.) But my coments are not about people . they are about actions atitude & so on. They do not alpie gladly I say to you or Clair. Nor to most of my friends on here. I do have too the greatest love & respect for you all.. Take real care my friends.. Graham from Scotland..