Its hard

I am working on a tribute to my late brother Don.  I guess I should keep it to positive things.
He had Asperger's Syndrome.  They have a tendency to lie and be secretive about silly things.Don told me he had 4 kids and grandkids.  I am not sure if he made this up or not.  My daughter had my grandson and then granddaughter.  I think he might have made it up as well because he wished he had grandkids.  I am not sure on that score.
I am concerned though that Don was married to Debbie but they never obtained a legal divorce.
She is a good soul but one never knows when it comes to settling the estate.
All these things are going through my brain.  
Thanks for being a major support once again in my life due to the loss of my oldest brother Don.
From DianeB