It’s been some years… almost 10yrs since my last entry. Life is amazing!

It's almost 10yrs since my last entry. On my own I have spoken up about what bothers me, what I won't allow, and I very firm about my stance on things. My morals are always what I live by. 

Bought a home, one kid has graduated the other has 3 more years. No bills at all for years (which has never been an issue) but, that just adds to the elated joy I feel in life. Younger brother has had a couple kids in the last 6yrs. Relationship is okay not close but, friendly texts. Same with his wife. Still have isdues with my husbands Mom and sister. But, last week I did stand my ground via text that have have no time for others feelings and emotions. I explained that I leave multiple olive branches out and no one grabs them. I will not do that anymore and they must contact me. That me randomly wishing a happy Tuesday or have a great week as a just because text won't be happening. They cut for days, weeks, and months and then they are upset when we go along with our daily lives and not involve the MIL. It felt good. She apologized and then out of nowhere a week later asked how I was which I did answer and tried to have a normal back and forth convo. Which she did leave hanging 3min in. She has her limits with being social I guess. That's on her.

my husband and I celebrated 21 years together we got married 5 1/2 years ago finally. we felt it was for us and no one else. We're still closer than ever and I will say possibly more close as the years go one. 

enjoyed a couple vacations with our our teens (we waited 17yrs to go on a vacation just for us). Best time just enjoying each other's company. I loved it.

recently started doing things for myself. I've sat down and read a couple books in just one week, which has been something I haven't done in years. Went out for a facial today. Really enjoyed it. It's really nice to do something for myself.

My Mom and I are closer. In 6pks she has lived next door in one of my properties. Wow right. She will forever trigger me about something. It's gotten less and less over the last 2yrs. She still does realize when she oversteps her boundaries but..... I am quick to correct. I not nice and will not hold back. It's been a positive to be assertive with my feelings and actions. 

I got myself a dog. She's 24/7 by my side. So, I'm never alone and she's just the most amazing comfort.

I have 3 best friends. 20yrs, 13yrs and 10yrs strong. I never contacted Stephanie and I'm so proud. 13yrs strong  as of February 2025! I did pass her at an amusement park. She noticed me and I was eyes straight forward like I never even saw her. Felt weird, scary, but, amazing! She left her 2nd hubby... which was her 29th (no joke) boyfriend. She with another man for I want to say 3 years this Aug. My one BFF informed me of the status. I do like to see that her eldest daughter who I loved is doing well. I think she just turned 21 a couple months ago. I last saw her when she was 8. We were extremely close. I sometimes wonder if she remembers me at all. But, her Mom was the type to make up stories to Will fight a family or friend in order to turn her daughter against them so I'm probably on that list. I'm proud of her. She gorgeous, athletic, and driven. In college and working. Good girl.

i don't think I've been more happy in my 4 decades that I have this year. 2025 was probably my best year to date. Everything excited me this year. We had some downs. Lost some family. Gained a new baby, talked to my Aunt on my Dad's side. I can only see 2026 being the best year to date... that each year gets better.