Invitations for People who care but get no help
Hi Fans. This Ds seams to have gone quiet. I have given some thought to what Im about to say. i do not want it to be taken the wrong way. There has been & is still folk on DS who would like to do some thing for other members of DS who care for others even in the ways that I do on DS but also who are acting as a un paid unsuported carer to some one. As most or some of you know the person I care fore is epileptic & lives with me. Let me first say another thing. Tere are 2 things that made me think of my idea that i am about to put to ou all. The first thing was when I was seaking help in a way thatis not alowed on DS Imsorry for doing so & it is not some thing I wanted or do as a hobie ect Situasions can drive us all to do things we would not ormaly do. As to if Im still in the situasion relevent to my senario ' I prefer not to say but here is my second thing tat made me thing of the comming idea. There was recently a member putting rund requests for us to meet upin what ever way posible. It has got me wondering if for example any one lives in the uk or Scotland & wanted to invite us out to lunch or some thing because they MAY feel we deserve it then that is one thing they an do to help in that way. Im not just aimimng it at me but an one you know who you feel deserves it for a good reason. For you who do not know mutch about me please just read my profie & jurnals. But can you all pass this idea on ? It does not have to happen. Its justan idea. Take care Lots o love & hugs orbiefangraham.
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that\'s a great idea , my wife and I have met a few people online in person, it was nice , we\'d take you out for dinner if you lived here in the usa in kentucky
orbie, I have been in a crisis mentally, and not even able to much function in any sort of normal way.I am getting on Welbutrin for my depression.(I was on Prozack, and it was causing severe sleep pepravation. ) I was really loosing it going for days without sleep, and then your mind has not way to release it\'s subconcious crap, AND I have plenty. Hon, I have lost both my sons. I had 2 not there are none. This is like just crazy, being a mother with none of my boys. I built my world around my boys. Now they are gone. I have 2 grand kids from each son. They need me. I have a wonderful husband, I evne still have my 83 year old Mother, who is stronger than I have ever even known, I know she was strong because of her faith, but she has lost 2 of her 3 grand kids, and she is comforting me. > I need much prayer. Much, I will not surrvive without it. God is not done with me I know. But I am scared for what he has planned. Pray for me and my family. I do the same for you, I pray alot. It helps me so much. Love,Peggy
Interesting idea. I don\'t live anywhere near you but I know for me I am very cautious about meeting people off of the internet. I don\'t know about other people but that is one of my things....I\'m sure you are a great guy but no days you can never be too careful about meeting anybody....from anywhere for that matter. It\'s unfortunate...but that\'s the way the world has become. ***HUGS*** Take care.
I believe that what Dave1611 has to say is very sound advice. When you do a good deed for someone you should not expect be rewarded for it. I am disabled as well. And I take care of my husband and my niece lives with me since her mom died in that car accident that crippled my husband. But I dont expect to be rewarded for it. It is just what needs to be done, therefore I have to do it. I hope you have a blessed day.
Yes Im making no excuses for my self & my spelling by aying Im dislexic. But also I know what im trying to say when writtting some thing but its in my head more clearer than it sometimes turns out being once I put it on paper. If any one knows or comunicates with the person who just made that coment about my spelling please pass the word as to what I have just said. I take no ofence at it as it has been said before. Take care all. Lots of love & hugs . I have noticed that less & less folk seam to be bothering to read my jurnals even the new ones as & when they are set up. I do put the word out but if any of you can do the same it would be a great help & I would be very greateful. Lots of love & hugs from me orbiefangraham Graham.
The fan coment is tust a mumorous joke. it was realy my way of saying thinks to all who have befriended me a folk do on here & for them who have said i have helped them in some way. as for the coments i have made about issues that may not be relevent for sertain groups. all i can say is im sorry but how am i to know there is limits to what thease groups are for? Maybe the fact that i have put what seams to be non releent issues in groups that seam to not be relevent for them may indicate we need groups on here that do but not just for me. i thought all of this negative replies had stopd. a bit more open mindednes & understanding is what isalso needed here. take care
I say if you think it is good for you to meet them go for it...but be careful....I have many friends on here I\'d love to meet but they are so far away....Godd Luck to you in your adventures....and God Bless You.