Insecure
I don't understand... I feel hurt and rejected because on facebook when I looked at our two kids' profile they only acknowledged each other and my husband as their dad. It's like I never existed. I don't want to say anything because they will feel obligated to put me on as their Mom or my husband will make them do it. I know that when we were married I expressed my hurt and anger in destructive ways. I have a hard time trying to express and explain when I am upset. My husband pretty much gave up on trying to build up my self-confidence and got tired of my negativity (basically what he said) one of probably many reasons to want to divorce me. But if you knew him, Oussama Alkhalili, you might see why I feel inferior to him.
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No one should make you feel inferior. You were married a long time and there should be a certain level of respect for your life together. When a person is committed to a divorce you can't change it. But you are not nobody! Get a therapist and talk through it. If you have other issues they can help with that as well. Good luck.