Im REALLY Hurt!
You know, I don't understand why I keep getting hurt. It's nothing new, and it's not like it's a big suprise or anything.
Our daughter started the new dance season today, and her classes are sort of wonky. Tap is 4-430pm and ballet is 515-545pm, so there is an akward pause in between classes. I still have my nephew until 530, so earlier we had discussed how he would take her to classes and I would stay at home and cook supper and such.
Well today he was all pissy I didn't go with him, then I tell him that if he wants he can take her to a park in between classes (originally we were gonna try to rush home and have her eat in that gap) and I would have supper ready for when they got home. So 6pm at the latest as the studio is a 5-10 minute drive away.
So by 6pm I have supper ready, the table set, and our daughters food on her plate cooling. 615 rolls around, nobody, so I text him....no answer. 630 rolls around, still nobody, no answer on the phone, so I shoot off another text. 645 and STILL nobody or text or phone call answer.
They show up at 655, supper is cold, the sauce on the noodles is congealed, the chicken is cold. Marlow wanted to buy me some flowers from the store they apparentley went to so they had 2 dozen roses with them.
I took the roses and thanked Marlow and such. I didn't have a vase tall enough or big enough to stick all the flowers together. So Im in the kitchen, upset and crying a little, dealing with the roses. And Joey comes in and gets MAD AT ME! He says he did nothing wrong, and that I should of just plated like I do when he's late other times. And that Im unappreciative of the flowers. Then he 'asks' if he can go to his buddies and play video games and I told him I didn't care, and he got all snarky with me, asking what my problem was, and I told him I was still upset, and he shrugged, said whatever and left.
I text him, stupid, but I was hurt and angry, and told him that just because it didn't matter to him doesnt mean it doesnt matter to me, and he text back that hes always doing things for me and I don't care so I'm ungrateful and mean.
I wasn't wrong at all! I'm sure of it! I don't even have to think about it. Why couldn't he just text me and TELL me he was going to be late. And right before he left to take Marlow to her first dance class he made a nasty remark about how supper better not be hot dogs and mac n cheese (I made it Friday as I wasnt feeling to well and wanted something quick) so I cook this big meal and he's an hour late!! I'm so mad....and I'm extra mad that I got upset about it.
Our daughter started the new dance season today, and her classes are sort of wonky. Tap is 4-430pm and ballet is 515-545pm, so there is an akward pause in between classes. I still have my nephew until 530, so earlier we had discussed how he would take her to classes and I would stay at home and cook supper and such.
Well today he was all pissy I didn't go with him, then I tell him that if he wants he can take her to a park in between classes (originally we were gonna try to rush home and have her eat in that gap) and I would have supper ready for when they got home. So 6pm at the latest as the studio is a 5-10 minute drive away.
So by 6pm I have supper ready, the table set, and our daughters food on her plate cooling. 615 rolls around, nobody, so I text him....no answer. 630 rolls around, still nobody, no answer on the phone, so I shoot off another text. 645 and STILL nobody or text or phone call answer.
They show up at 655, supper is cold, the sauce on the noodles is congealed, the chicken is cold. Marlow wanted to buy me some flowers from the store they apparentley went to so they had 2 dozen roses with them.
I took the roses and thanked Marlow and such. I didn't have a vase tall enough or big enough to stick all the flowers together. So Im in the kitchen, upset and crying a little, dealing with the roses. And Joey comes in and gets MAD AT ME! He says he did nothing wrong, and that I should of just plated like I do when he's late other times. And that Im unappreciative of the flowers. Then he 'asks' if he can go to his buddies and play video games and I told him I didn't care, and he got all snarky with me, asking what my problem was, and I told him I was still upset, and he shrugged, said whatever and left.
I text him, stupid, but I was hurt and angry, and told him that just because it didn't matter to him doesnt mean it doesnt matter to me, and he text back that hes always doing things for me and I don't care so I'm ungrateful and mean.
I wasn't wrong at all! I'm sure of it! I don't even have to think about it. Why couldn't he just text me and TELL me he was going to be late. And right before he left to take Marlow to her first dance class he made a nasty remark about how supper better not be hot dogs and mac n cheese (I made it Friday as I wasnt feeling to well and wanted something quick) so I cook this big meal and he's an hour late!! I'm so mad....and I'm extra mad that I got upset about it.
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