I went to the bank with the papers yesterday.

I went to the bank with the papers yesterday.  Now I have to wait 3-5 days for them to check it out and make sure it is all legal.  This will give me power of attorney to Smokey's bank account.  The bank will take out the small amount of the homeline from Smokey's bank account.  This is what I wanted.  Now I have to sell the car to pay off the car bank loan.  They won't repossess the car as there is a small amount of money left to pay the car loan payments.  I have to take the paper that ICBC gave me to get it notarized.  It all cost money.  This is why I advise everyone to have a will so they won't go thru all what I have and it is expensive to boot.  It sucks being me at the moment.  Now if I want the legalized version to say I have life interest in the apartment, I will have to go to the Land Title Office, which will cost more money.  I am not in a hurry for this as I am not sure how much that will cost me.  I will wait on that one until I get a job to get this done.
Get a will if you do not have one is the best advice I can give to everyone to save them from what I am going thru at the moment.  It all is great stress and is making me cry all over again.  It's a heavy burden to carry on my shoulders.  I have no one to help me at all. 
I just needed to sound off a wee bit so thanks for listening to me ramble on and on from Diane Baillie

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OnMyOwn2010
OnMyOwn2010

So sorry for all the stress...I can understand how all the legal stuff would sot of open old wounds...but at least you\'re getting some of the legal issues resolved...I hope you are able to get the rest of them resolved soon...I wish you had someone there who could be of some help...but know that you are in my prayers....
Blessings, Love & Hugs, ~E~
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ya, I will get one, for my kids,.. just kept puttingit off,... Diane, I hope you get thru this, with out too much of a hassle,.. I am so sorry,.. try and do one thing at a time, as you are doing, is a good idea, for sure,.. hope your spirits, are up today,.. My prayers are with you,.. your friend, Dave