I want to be with him, but

Last night my BF and I had an arguement and I said i want a break, and asked him to leave. I'm in the hotel alone right now and feeling horrible and miserable. I dont want to break up with him, i love him a lot, and he's the only person in the world who i can be completley myself. But he acts or talks stupid sometimes and i get really mad. This time he really pushed me off the edge and i said that lets break up. He wants to be with me, but i cant keep giving him chances for the rest of our lives. He has to understand to be more sensitive. and know that i love him...We both love each other so much, and really be ourselves, but some how something is making it hard for us to take the relationship to the next level. I am really feeling so very horrible.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Sometimes a fight is good. That sounds odd but I mean it can be healthy and bring understanding to the relationship. Your maturity seems ahead of his, as my ex was the same way at times. I put up with the childish behavior because of how I felt about him. I could overlook these times and saw him as a good guy who loved me.

Fighting can strengthen things ONLY if he\'s flexible. Talk it out with him and see what his feelings are. Keeping an open mind, both of you, is good for both. Good luck!
caseyk
caseyk

Yeah, we worked it out. We have been through a lot of fights now and we always work it out and solve our issues. Its all ok now. He\'s understanding when he\'s on the erring side. And accepts his mistakes, and usually never repeats them again. And i\'m happy about it.