I Texted Jay, Bad Move...

So I texted jay yesterday and just thanked him for not contacting me in my isolation... Usually Jay like to argue. Everytime I would contact him he can never be wrong and open his eyes to what is truely going on. Yesterday was the same thing but I cornered him into seeing it the right way and told him not to be a hypocrite because he did the same thing to his circle and I didnt get a response. And all I wanted to do was just say thanks damn! I told Joseph that I contacted Jay and he wasnt too happy. He was so bothered and his excuse was it was too short of a time (2 weeks) that you contacted him. I asked him if you think it would have been better after 3 months and he agreed. He seemed soooooo bothered and I dont think it was because I contacted him too soon. I think its because he doesnt want me to contact him at all!!! Because why would he get so angry that I contacted him after 2 weeks. I dont see the need to get so angry about it. I would have just said, "hey you know what you need to do and stick to it." But not let it get to me so much like it got with him. I texted Jay because I felt bad about what happened with Alex and Jay is still my friend, whether we talk or not. So I thought I would let him know I am doing ok.  Anyways, I seen how much it hurt my babe and its hard because Jay is my friend and my ex. There might be a possibility that Joseph wants me to have nothing to do with Jay. That wont happen though and if it does, I am choosing Jay because Jay has been in my life for 6 years and I am not letting my friend go for some new comer. I dont care how good he treats me, NEVER!