I need to talk to my friends here!

So I went to work this morning and then drove home.


Ate lunch and had a shower....dressed and then had some


dessert (a bowl of coconut granola.)


Was sitting on the couch when I just realized I need to talk 


to you guys here! It's not the same as in person of course -


so I'll imagine you guys reading this...and reacting lol.


I kind of have a propensity to grind away at a linearity and I am learning


better now by trying to be mentally aware of giving myself what I really want


or relief of some kind - rather than pushing forward in a perfecting kind of way or the following


of an image in my head...and grinding...make sense? It's a better way to be my best friend while


alone...I'm caring for me!


I'll go play with Blue - he's crying for attention...


peace and talk later! Happy Memorial Day!

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SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady

Sometimes when I’m intensely looking at something or reading, writing, working, the cat will take her paw and just place it on me. “Stop.” She says, reminding me to relax. One time she was sitting at my desk while I was working and she put her paw on my shoulder and gave me a stern look. Cat boss!

Being your own best friend and being kind to yourself is good! Relaxing in your freedom is good too, knowing it’s ok to not be perfect.... because nobody is.
malibumark
malibumark

thanks Nikki!
malibumark
malibumark

Blue wants me to return to bed now and pet him there!! His favorite spot!
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

I am so glad that you're taking good care of you...... Granola... how healthy!!!... Yay...... Big squishy hug....xo
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Jan!
arfie
arfie

I don't **get** to be alone very often since the immaculate conception of triplets (inheriting 3 orphans) at age 65, but I still spend more time with myself than any other person on the planet. Self-loathing is an invitation to Hell on Earth. With self-abuse, there is no escaping your abuser.

Peace out and tickle the cat.
malibumark
malibumark

thanks arfie!