I'm on 2 free online dating sites now.

I am on two online free dating sites now.  A friend of mine named Laurel in Osoyoos, British Columbia who says the guys on  Plenty of Fish just want sex.  I had a scam on Christian Soul Mates where a guy wanted money.  Go figure!  For every good one, there is scams out there so we all have to be careful and diligent for ourselves.  I know people who have been scammed for money when they have been dating.  Lucky for me I don't have money to give out that is for certain.  I have not had a good response on Plenty of Fish.  I have better responses on Christian Soul Mates but most of the guys who reply to me all live in the USA.  I don't want a long distance relationship that is for sure.  Oh well, lucky for me I am not in a hurry as I am still dating Dave.  Dating Dave helps me sort out all the jerks that are out there.  When a person is alone, you can be more desperate or want a relationship urgently, which is not good.  When you relax, take your time and not be in a hurry, its when you can find a good relationship if that is what you are looking for.  Enjoy life.  If things are meant to be someone will enter your life and that is a good thing.  If you are meant to be alone, just enjoy life anyways.  Yes, I still miss Smokey but I want to get on with my life now.  This would make Smokey really happy.  I am young enough to kick up my heals and enjoy the full extent of my life.  I am wise enough to know what I can't do anymore but wise enough to enjoy what I can do.  We are alive and breathing.  God blessed us with life and lets enjoy it to the fullest despite our various circumstances for the good, middle or bad.  It will all turn around in a very positive way for each of us.  God bless you all and thank you for being here for me.  From Diane B.

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pattiameo
pattiameo

I am glad to see you seem so positive. I have heard that about the Plenty of Fish website. I have not heard of Christian Soul Mates before, but I have heard that Christian Mingles has scammers too. I looked at OurTime and Senior People Meet, which are for people over 50, but not free and I will not pay for a membership. I am still completely terrified of joining any groups, so I don\'t. I like what you said about people entering our lives. If God means for me to meet people, He will bring them into my life somehow. Good luck with your dating websites. {{{HUGS}}} Patti