i know where i stand
ok so my marriage hsas been going down hill for years and my wife cheated on me, so we are divorcing, she is still talking to her friend, so i decided to be spiteful we live apart and we are not getting back together, so i joined some dating sights, i have sent out messages to a lot of people that seem nice and i find attractive, but its been weeks and i get nothing, i guess i am as ugly as i was always told, just wish people would not be so superficial and get to know a person, i know its my opinion ands i am bias but i know the truth lol
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And that\'s why when you started telling me who u really were i perked up a lil. Not everyone is superficial. I like that ur a nerdy science fiction junky...i find that awesome and someone else will too. The waiting is the hardest part. I may have invented marriage w as long as rob n i have been together but i see the trash that\'s out there now. Its better to wait until u find true happiness! YOURE NOT UGLY! DONT BASH MY FRIENDS LIKE THAT! ;)
I am sorry for what you are going through with your wife that must be very hard on you and the kids. As far as dating sites its the same as anything else you have to weed through the bad to find the good. I am sure there are some good women out there you just need to be patient. As far as me I dont consider myself superficial at all. I just someone by their heart and how they treat me not on what they look like.. good luck hon...
So sorry to hear about all of this. You\'re NOT ugly! You\'re probably only feeling that way because of what happened! I have all of the confidence in the world that you will find somebody that appreciates you for exactly who you are. Have some patience and go easy on yourself!!
I know how you feel. I feel the same way. You are not ugly and there are plenty of good women out there. Be patient. This just happened and you are probably not ready to date yet. So don\'t get too discouraged. I know that you will find somebody!
please dont be so hard on yourself. It takes time to come to terms about what has happened to you and you have to believe in yourself. Be positive and there is someone out there for you. Take up a hobby that gets you out of the house regularly, eg a dance class, the gym, and a site where you can meet new friends and start to enjoy life once again.
So sorry to hear about your situation. Don\'t be so hard on yourself, you are not ugly. There is someone out there for you. Keep your chin up, and let this year be good to you. :)
I want to say I\'m very sorry that your wife cheated on you. You are a very good person and I am so sad that happened to you. You deserve better. Maybe dating right away isn\'t such a good idea. Maybe taking time to find the some inner peace would be better. As for the online dating sites don\'t feel to bad. I think there are like 100 dudes to every one girl on those sites. When I was rebounding off of Jason( my ex) I joined Match and I had overwhelming messages everyday from different men. It was rare I answered and many of them were good looking, seemed nice and nothing wrong with them. Just didn\'t answer all of them. I also know some guys who joined and had the same problems with no response back from women. Don\'t be disheartened. You are a nice guy. Don\'t let this get you down. I admire you for putting yourself out there after what you have dealt with. That is a big step and a sign of self esteem. Please don\'t be sad. You will find happiness and somebody who deserves you.
I\'m going to tell you the same thing I told my bro.... it takes months before you get good combacks. And besides if you are talking to these women only to \"spite\" whatever is going on with you and the wife, then you aren\'t seeking the dates for the right reasons and someone will end up getting hurt.