i have limits dont threaten me
i try to be nice and friendly with everyone, but i have limits i wont say a name however someone made a post about making friends and they arent good at it, well i used to be friends with this person, and i did a couple things to help them out, defended them in a post and what not. They had a journal entry that was very distressing about how upset she was, and she kept commenting and commenting on her own journal. i asked her what was wrong, she said read my journal. i said i did it was confusing i dont understand, she said whats not to understand, .anyhow i was unfriended cause i was trying to talk to them about their journal entry, now i was unfriended cause i wanted to talk. she posts a thread on how alone she is, i replied, your alone cause you dont want to talk. i tried to, i said you just miserable, maybe i should make a post recanting my post defending you. so i get an email from this person now this person has threatened to cut themselves if i recant my defense of her on the thread in another group. i dont like being threatened, why do people try and blackmail self harm to people i dont know here, i dont care, i mean i dont want anyone to hurt themselves but whats wrong with people. this is a support site, but some people still need to seek some professional help.
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The nerve of some people x.x -patpat-
I think this person need to seek professional help if an online support forum makes them want to cut themselves.... i have struggled with self injury off and on but the feelings surrounding it have nothing to do with DS.... i think its sad you have to go threw this when obviously you was only trying to help that person.
I don\'t know you, but I know exactly who and what you\'re referring to. Yes, she needs a LOT of help. She\'s taking a break from DS now, which is good. She loves her kids enough to not really hurt herself. I would probably not communicate with her too much right now because her emotions are so high. She needs to let go of some pain and get some healthy perspective and find a little happiness for herself. I think it\'s been hard for her to accept help here on DS, so I help she\'s finding it in her real life. And I\'m sorry that happened to you, but don\'t take responsibility for someone else\'s actions.
i agree with what awesome said...that\'s why she is awesome. I know who you are talking about as well and don\'t take it personally. She needs professional help, and I feel like she tries to blackmail (emotionally) a lot of people on here. We are all going thru rough times, being \"friends\" with her is probably not the healthiest thing for anyone who is struggling with their own issues. You have done nothing wrong and please don\'t let her get to you.