I hate this

 So, my stepdaughter Z, has continued to push me. She wants to talk to my lawyers, both the estate lawyer and the personal injury lawyer. Both lawyers have told me they will not talk to her -- if she has a lawyer, they will talk to her lawyer.  So, I finally told her that. This is going to blow up big time. Maybe I need to change the locks on my house. Ugh. I really hate this. What do they want me to do? Give up my house and home? The one that I helped pay for, for the past 9+ years and that I am continuing to do so?  The home that they never bothered to care about?  The home that they rarely came to once they were "grown up"?  The home that they never considered their home?  It was only a place to sleep when they HAD to be with their father.  Now, they are going to hire a lawyer and make this whole thing VERY contentious, and expensive.   This is going to get VERY bad. I think I am going to have to change the locks, yes.  Terrible.