i guess i didnt learn the lesson
so i nd 2 go through the bs again. i feel like a dummy. ive complained about this "friend" before. I wanna think of him as a friend, but most of our interactions leave me feeling taken advantage of. and i just dont get y he wld wanna take advantage of me. i dont have anything. theres no reason to take something from me. i just don't get it. i keep wondering if im overreacting b/c of what ive gone through with my husband. my gut says no. this guy is unreliable. he appears to be a sweet guy, but i gotta wonder y in the world he wld be so insensitive? maybe he's not a complete asshole. maybe he's not trying to hurt me, but is just really insensitive.
he dropped by sat. i called him when i had decided i was done. that was my mistake. so he comes over and hangs out. that was cool. but then he says he wants to buy my cookie inventory. ( i bake cookies and sell them)...so he says he wants to buy 4 bags off me. which costs $16. the last time he bought cookies from me he didn't pay me for a while. i dont remember how long it was. but it was too long for me. he's unreliable. im unemployed. im a single mom of 4. y wld someone want to take anything from me?
so he left with the cookies and some promise of coming over later. and he didn;t and he didn't call and i called the next day and he didnt answer and hasnt called me back. this makes me feel like we're not friends. and i guess thats true. maybe i wanna think of us as friends b/c weve had sex, but his behavior is not friendly.
until he pays me for the cookies he took, he has taken cookies from me. im unemployed. y wld u do that? if u don't have the money on u then don't take the cookies until u do. and i shd have sd that, but i didn't wanna offend him.
and i feel offended. i feel like u borrowed money sd u were gonna pay it back by a certain time and didnt. and u know im in dire need, so why in the world wld u take/borrow from me?
he dropped by sat. i called him when i had decided i was done. that was my mistake. so he comes over and hangs out. that was cool. but then he says he wants to buy my cookie inventory. ( i bake cookies and sell them)...so he says he wants to buy 4 bags off me. which costs $16. the last time he bought cookies from me he didn't pay me for a while. i dont remember how long it was. but it was too long for me. he's unreliable. im unemployed. im a single mom of 4. y wld someone want to take anything from me?
so he left with the cookies and some promise of coming over later. and he didn;t and he didn't call and i called the next day and he didnt answer and hasnt called me back. this makes me feel like we're not friends. and i guess thats true. maybe i wanna think of us as friends b/c weve had sex, but his behavior is not friendly.
until he pays me for the cookies he took, he has taken cookies from me. im unemployed. y wld u do that? if u don't have the money on u then don't take the cookies until u do. and i shd have sd that, but i didn't wanna offend him.
and i feel offended. i feel like u borrowed money sd u were gonna pay it back by a certain time and didnt. and u know im in dire need, so why in the world wld u take/borrow from me?
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