I Got My Father Back
It's been a difficult year. I lost my husband in 2010. Then I had the fight of my life with my father. Dealing with both nearly took me over the edge. And I did not know how I could put up with my father's constant rages. Anger boiled within me and I battle my own demons, but I remembered one thing God wants from his children: forgiveness. He tells us to forgive and keep on forgiving. So that's what I did with my father. And today I received my reward: My father thanked me. He admitted that he had psycological demons that were ripping him apart, especially in this last year. He admitted how afraid he was and told me how everyone walked away except me. And then he told me how if it hadn't been for me, he could not have survived. His sanity was being ripped away, he said, and he didn't know what to do. Then I stepped in. And he thanked me.
I can see the difference in him. We're talking now, communicating in a way I didn't think possible. He seems happier, calmer.
He also thanked me for the dog I brought him last year. I once read that dogs can aleviate depression. Well, my father agrees. It made a difference because I had something that depended on me, he said.
So, it comes down to this--forgiveness, and never stop forgiving. Love and never stop loving. As for the future--well, I know there will be ups and downs, but I'm prepared for them. My preparation came from the greatest book of all times: the Bible.
I can see the difference in him. We're talking now, communicating in a way I didn't think possible. He seems happier, calmer.
He also thanked me for the dog I brought him last year. I once read that dogs can aleviate depression. Well, my father agrees. It made a difference because I had something that depended on me, he said.
So, it comes down to this--forgiveness, and never stop forgiving. Love and never stop loving. As for the future--well, I know there will be ups and downs, but I'm prepared for them. My preparation came from the greatest book of all times: the Bible.
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I am gladf that things have smoothed out for you. Just keep looking forward. Dlane
You certainly had a lot to bear, I hope your father continues to appreciate you. Linda
I am very glad for you. This hopefully will bless him but mostly bless you in your forgiveness. I pray it will last.
Peace
Dave
I am so happy for you and your Dad...life is too short. hoping this will bring you happiness and peace.
love,
Carla
This is truly wonderful. It is true life is too short to carry that anger. So happy there is some relief from that for you....
So we have BOTH had a miracle have we not!!!!?????? I am so excited for you I am about to BURST! Yes. Love and forgiveness! That\'s what it is all about!!!! So why do we forget that at times and give in to the anger?
I don\'t know but I hope and pray we can both keep the forgivenress going and let go of the anger forever. I am glad we met. DS ROCKS!
Wow! You are a wonderful Christian Woman and a great example to the rest of us. I am a Christian woman. At times, I wonder why! There are so many things I have done wrong in my life that I feel like Swiss cheese with many holes in me. Why would anyone look to me as an example? I think it all the time. You are a great example to keep on loving and forgiving. Thank you as I need it now in my life. Smokey died in 2009. It is still hard. You lost your husband in 2010. It is hard. I understand.
I\'m so happy for you, hope it continues and continues to go well ....hugs, Sandi