I don't fucking get it!!!

I get complimented on how good i look every time i go out and a lot of times, I don't even have to try to look good yet when it comes to getting a decent date....It all goes to hell. They either decide they don't like me because I'm not good looking enough or they find out I'm not as cool. But they don't tell me. They don't just come out and say they dont want to see me. Instead they ignore my calls or txt messages! WTF is up with that shit?!!?