I can wrise above things like this & more
Hi all. Some one on here has a proflem with me calling you my fans. The wrong intrpritation has been taken out of it . I do not mean it as if I was a famouse star & this was my fan club It is just a token word to say thay Im greatfull for all the suportt ect I have been getting on here & te many coments that folk have said on how mutch I have helped them or oters on here as well as how mutch I am still doing so. The number of folk replying it tat way ect makes it feel as if I were famouse. Fame like being well off money wise is not the answer to all things but the feel of fame in a good wa is a great thing. Im not lettig it go to my head. Back to why Im doing this jurnal. Not only does some one ave a problem with the FAN coment I make at the start of most of m jurnals but he has a problem with me putting coments about things I have suffered even as a hild on groups I thought would cover thease issues too How am i toi know that the said grous have limits on what they do ect.??. Child bed wetting was one that he remarked on I dont want to name names He sent the un called for remarks onthe coment section of my last jrnal. I dont know if others can see it . He also comented on othert matters. Im dislexic. I know what i want to say & wat im trying to put across I know it in my head but it is not always easy to put it down on paper ect as clear ect as it is in my head. There is alot of areas for a bit mor understanding ect to be practiced here as well as other relevent things. I do understand he may have hs own problems but thatis no excuse for firing out Nast comets like my fan coment & me putting issues on group pages that may not cover some of them (If any.) There is no way of knowing what group covers what in full I get requests to joun groups but irt does not come with a guide book ect. Using the bed wetting issue. NO its not an issue for me now but every thing that happens to us even fro child hood hapes us to be whatwe are ot are to become later.It all plays a part in our lifes. It does not matter if it was just a chld hood thing it can still afect us. Apart from what makes a child bed wet. his is just one of ma examples. I can wrise above many things & the fact that I use my prfile & jurnals to help folk even on here as well asusing my own past & present hell as a too like most of you know turning negative to a good use is another example of me wrising above the hell. Its not all about me. Nothing isall about me. Did the person take time to concider things before jumping the gun.? Its as if he saw what he saw as he saw it but did not take time to see it as it realy is ect. It is clear that he did not even read my profile. & if he had taken time to mesage me ect then maybe the pictur he has of me would have been less misty ect. If some one puts ( HELLOOW DARLING at the start of thier jurnals . I do NOT go mating a great song & dance about it. I do hope that folk ae not starting to team up against me. He has asked me to remove him from my friends list or contacts. He is NOT on my contact Or friends list. There was a guy who once said My profile ect does nothing for him but his added coment was just as nasty. This one I have just wriiten about here is a second . I ave said I cant help every one it is not HUMANLY posible. Im sorry. One of the reasons I put issues on group boards ect is because there may be folk who have gone through the same or some thing that has the same efects on them in the past or even now. Itsalso to let them know tey are not alone. I used t take constant nose bleeds due to problems at birth. I suffered from brain hemraging up until I was 13 but I still get the odd nose bleed if under too mutch strain ect. t as beeen known for things to return when we get older likepensionable age. It is not easy to sa or know if thease hemerges do still some wa play apart in a persons tee age or adault life but I feel that they do. This is another example.. Sorry if you did not know of my hemeraging but it should be sated in m profile. As for the seeing what we see as we see it. Some times we dont want to see things asthey reay are but its like first impresions... Like Juging a book only by its covers but in this case my book has been juged apon wrongly. If it was read as it should have been it would have turned out to be quite a good book.Would folkm rather I stop calling them my fans & start caloing them my enamys.OK Hi MY ENAMYS. If the shue fits. If some thing people write os say in theirprofiles & jurnals are not intended to ofend or anoy ect then why do folk wh get anoyed ect by them bother to read the bits that any them.?. You do not have to read it. Helpfull coments do more good fo people even on here..Its not any ones fault tat we are all ging through what ever we are going through nor what we have gone through.. we are all here becaus we need help of some kind but some of us are here to give it too.. It is te same in real life as they call it. some times ou try to do good & you get it shoved back in your face I say SOME TIMES. Thats one of the many things called sivalisation. What is sivalised about it?. Te list goes on. Im not ere to bug or make enamys. Im sure we have more better things to do & more to worry about than pett little things like some one putting introslike (HI FANS) on jurnals & adding issues on grups that may not cover the issue stated. Some ones profile & jurnals not doing any thing for some one.. Again the list goes on. Yes im complaining . Because no one has to put up with negaivity & least of all on a net work of this kind. Its time it stoped & some thing was done about it.Oter members are having problems wit negaitve coments made on what ever they are doing or trying to in good ways. I have rad some recently. Take care what ever you are to me.
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