I Can't Stand This Crap

My best friends wife (AGAIN) is drunk and extremely nasty. I have an interview tomorrow and told me to behave. I am trying to study for the interview. They also want to see if I can pre-qualify them for a mortgage. Guess the fuck what...DECLINED!!! They are driving me nuts. She keeps telling him she wants a divorce. It seems counter-intuitive for me to pre-qual these two only to have them divorce and blow out their own loan...not to mention that they have an 8 year old who has been out of control and disobedient. 


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veggiequeen
veggiequeen

Sorry they are at it again. And thinking the poor little guy (or girl) is probably out of hand trying to get attention--- and picking up on the tension between mommy and daddy. (Hang in there,,, a couple days left)
downandout101
downandout101

Tis true. I love that little girl. Maria and I have known her since she was a baby. She is so cute and sweet and I believe you are right, she is picking up the tension and I have heard her ask her parents to stop. I wish I could do something to protect her heart. If they don't stop, especially mom, she is going to have a hard time with other people when she grows up.
veggiequeen
veggiequeen

You are so right and that is the saddest part of all this. It will affect her for years to come. If only adults did realize that before they act.
downandout101
downandout101

You are absolutely correct. The problem is when adults act more like kids than kids do.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

Being around a nasty drunk would make any child act out..... I'm sorry that you've had to endure this...… It's sad.... Sometimes divorce is the best option for all concerned …. This is no good for any of them and it's abuse for the little girl she can't get away from it at 8 years old... If CPS saw this going on she'd be removed from the home

There's good help for alcoholism if the mother is ill..... Big hug.....xo
downandout101
downandout101

Thanks. Even though she is sober now, she is still riding him hard and won't get off his back. I cannot wait until I move out of here....hopefully on Thursday or Friday.
Kingsolomon66
Kingsolomon66

sending my thoughts to you, praying for the best my friend