I AM IN HELL!!
THESE PICTURES DEPICT SOME OF MY MOODS RIGHT NOW. I AM SO...OVER THE EDGE. IT IS ALL THANKS TO MY DISRESPECTFUL, UNAPPRECIATIVE, SELF-CENTERED DAUGHTER. AS MANY OF YOU KNOW, SHE HAS BEEN LIVING WITH US SINCE THE BEGINNING OF JANUARY. WE MADE THE FEW HOUSEHOLD RULES VERY CLEAR AND AGREED UPON THEM IE. CLEAN UP YOUR DISHES, MAKE YOUR BED, LOOK AFTER YOUR CAT. THOSE WERE THE ONLY RULES!! BUT THAT WAS ASKING TOO MUCH. SHE RARELY LOOKED AFTER HER CAT AND WOULD BE GONE FOR DAYS AT A TIME SO THE CHORE FELL TO ME. I SAID NOTHING!! I HAD TO REMIND HER TO MAKE HER BED AS IT IS IN THE LIVINGROOM FOR ANY GUESTS TO SEE. AND THE DISH ISSUE, WELL, THAT WAS A CONSTANT ISSUE. SHE HAS THE HABIT OF LEAVING MILK GLASSES AROUND AND OF COURSE YOU KNOW HOW HARD THEY ARE TO CLEAN.
ON TOP OF THIS WE HAVE BEEN SUPPORTING HER FINANCIALY AS SHE DID NOT HAVE A JOB UNTIL LAST WEEK. THIS LITTLE FINANCIAL ENDEAVOR INCLUDED PAYING FOR HER BEGINNERS, THREE TIMES, HER DRIVER'S LICENSE AND TEST, HER MEDS, HER SMOKES, A WEEKLY ALLOWANCE, HER INSURANCE AND ON AND ON. THEN WE PAID HER FIRST MONTHS RENT PLUS DAMAGE DEPOSIT. SO AS YOU CAN PROBABLY FIGURE OUT IT IS A FAIRLY HEFTY BILL. BUT WE LOVE HER AND SO WE DID IT. WAS SHE GRATEFUL....YEAH, RIGHT!!!! ON SATURDAY AROUND SUPPERTIME SHE MADE HERSELF SOMETHING TO EAT AND JUST PUT THE POTS ANS STRAINER IN THE SINK. I HAD A FRYING PAN IN THERE SOAKING. HER DAD ASKED HER TO PLEASE, DO UP THE DISHES AND DO NOT PUT THE POT IN THE DISHWASHER ( WE DO OUR POTS BY HAND). WELL, SHE RINSED OUT THE STRAINER AND LEFT IT IN THE OTHER SINK, PUT THE POT IN THE DISHWASHER AND SHE COULD NOT EVEN BOTHER TO DO THE FRYING PAN. I BIT MY TONQUE AS I FREQUENTLY DO. THEN LATER THAT NIGHT AFTER I WAS IN BED SHE USED A COOKIE SHEET AND MADE SOMETHING. SHE LEFT THIS ON THE COUNTER. HER FATHER REMINDED HER TO CLEAN UP. SHE SAID SHE WOULD AFTER IT COOLED OFF. WELL, SEVERAL HOURS LATER HE ASKED AGAIN....NO DEAL. THE NEXT MORNING AROUND 11:00 I WAS IN THE KITCHEN WITH HUBBY AND HE POINTED OUT THE PAN STILL SITTING THERE. HE ASKED ME TO SPEAK TO HER ABOUT IT. SHE OVERHEARD AND CAME STORMING INTO THE KITCHEN. SHE STARTED SCREAMING AT HER FATHER AND SAID, "I JUST GOT THE F$%^ UP. SHE THEN THREW THE PAN ACROSS THE COUNTER AND STORMED OUT. I WAS STRESSING OUT, I WENT INTO THE REC ROOM AND SAID NOTHING. WELL, SHE PACKED UP HALF OF HER STUFF AND LEFT. SHE CAME BACK SOMETIME LATER FOR A FEW MORE THINGS. BUT.....DID SHE TAKE THE CAT...NO!!!! SHE IS SUPPOSE TO MOVE INTO HER APARTMENT TODAY. SHE STILL HAS STUFF HERE AS WELL. I AM SO......PISSED OFF WITH HER LACK OF RESPECT. SHE CAN GO OFF ON ME AND I WILL COME BACK AT HER BUT WHEN SHE COMES ABOARD HER FATHER THAT IS THE FINAL STRAW. I AM DONE!!! I DON'T GIVE A SHIT IF SHE HAS TO PANHANDLE IN THE STREETS. SHE IS AN UNGRATEFUL BITCH. I/WE DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT. I HAVE TO CUT HER OUT OF MY LIFE BECAUSE SHE IS KEEPING ME IN THE ABYSS. I KNOW THIS SOUNDS CRUEL AND MAYBE EVEN UNREASONABLE BUT I AM JUST DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SORRY IF THIS IS LONG AND RAMBLING BUT MY MIND IS IN LIMBO.
DEBBIE
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