When I was a teenager and into my 20\'s and 30\'s, I had low self-esteem. This led to my becoming attached to \"emotionally unavailable\" men. There is a group on DS called Women Who Love Too Much: when being in love means being in pain. That group has a lot to say about narcissists & psychopathic men who get off on dangling women (often more than one), jerking them around, even driving them to suicide attempts. I am now an older woman and the only good thing about getting old is that I no longer WANT to be on a roller coaster. I pay attention early to any red flags that appear. Life isn\'t as thrilling as when I was \"in love\" (and in pain), but at least I have contentment and peace.
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Want to try to get through it together? Hope you\'re ok. Thinking of you xx
I feel the same way! :::hugs:::
I feel the same way, and I\'m trying SO hard to stick to NC and no fb stalking. It\'s so hard though!
I tried so hard.. so hard.. for nothing
did u contact him?
no, of course not. i mean that i tried so hard to make it work. I feel horrible - angry, lonely and deceived.
When I was a teenager and into my 20\'s and 30\'s, I had low self-esteem. This led to my becoming attached to \"emotionally unavailable\" men. There is a group on DS called Women Who Love Too Much: when being in love means being in pain. That group has a lot to say about narcissists & psychopathic men who get off on dangling women (often more than one), jerking them around, even driving them to suicide attempts. I am now an older woman and the only good thing about getting old is that I no longer WANT to be on a roller coaster. I pay attention early to any red flags that appear. Life isn\'t as thrilling as when I was \"in love\" (and in pain), but at least I have contentment and peace.