hatred for my other half

so its been a little over a month since my wife admitted what she did, and if it was not for the sexting i would not really care she can talk to whoever she wants as friends, but since she admitted what she did i keep tabs on our cell phone bill,  my wife led a sheltered life, she was overly protected by her mother, it took 13 years of marriage for me to try and break her from the grip of having people constantly do for her. and what does she do, hyperextends that and now talks to multiple people, from some website called skout, they are all from different states and different areas, and she is giving them all her cell phone number to text or she calls them or vice versa, anyhow she asked for a divorce or an open marriage, of course i chose divorce but we still both live in the same house for now and i am checking my phone bill constantly and everytime i do, theres a new person she is texting, Today i go on, and she has been getting picture messages for a nothier guy now, i dnot even know a total but i am gonna find out how many differeent number are involved here.  anyhow,, in a way i dont blame her, she was sheltered i have been trying to break her out of her shell, of which she was thinking i was being mean but i was trying to help her. now she is out of her shell and she is not stopping running for freedom even from the ones who wanted her free to begin with. 
 
so back to the point of my journal, so i go onto my cell website and see that now in 6 days she has she has over 1350 texts and over 100 pix flix messages, and i think we are up to 14 total strangers ni the last 6 days and 30 in the last 36, the thing is she is beleivig what they are telling her, i have just had enought, i found 2 of the guys she is talking to on facebook, by their phone number, i hae their address now, umm hello you dont know these people yet you do this, so i call her after the latest one who is sending her pics messages adn i say to her, do you know why i am still checking up on you, her reply no why cause you want in my business, i said no, cause i just found 2 of your little friends by name address and phone number i could show up at their front doors if i felt like driving, but you are telling these total strangers everythign they hace your number, you dont know who they are, and i said i swear to god if one of those psychos knocks on my door while you and i are still under tha same roof, and one thing happens to my kids, not your brother or you two cousins will stop me from what i will do, i said we are done i dont care what you do, talk to them on facebook email them get a yahoo id and talk on messenger but quit giving total strangers yoru cell phone number  to me i dont get it, hiow this escapes her about it, she siad they all live far away, so i reply hmm let me go drive 90 minutes away, get a cell phone in westvirginia, and then come home and start texting your, you will think i am from west virginiaand i could tell you i live in the furthest reaches of the state, and your so stupid you will beleive me, meanwhile, i would be right downstairs.  i cant stand her for her stupidity
 
and as an addendum the phone plan is in my name i cant afford to pay the earl;y terminiation fee on her phone to cancel it to be able to keep my phone or i would have already done that