Guilty
I feel guilty for eating. My family has barely any food in the house. I feel guilty and that why I am starving myself. It hurts so much. I have barely ate in 4 days.
I feel guilty for eating. My family has barely any food in the house. I feel guilty and that why I am starving myself. It hurts so much. I have barely ate in 4 days.
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OMG. I'm so sorry to hear that. You need to eat.
I know that I need to eat I just feel guilty cause there are other people in the house that need to eat too.
Is there anyone or any place that can help?
No.
Do you have a food bank close by?
No. I live out in the country so I am not near anything. I will figure something out.
Church might be able to help too
How about any close friends or relatives?
Church could help me but I don't want my family to know that I told anyone. I will get it big trouble.
Sometimes you have to ask for help. And that's o.k.
I made some toast. Im okay.
If I ask for help my parents might get so mad they might hit me.
I got to go do dishes.
I'm glad you ate something.
They better not hit you
Your just trying to help.
Go do the dishes.
We can talk tomorrow.
Goodnight.
Goodnight.
Love ya.
I'm sorry that your family is struggling financially. I'm very concerned about the fact that you're not eating enough.
It is not wrong for you to eat three meals per day. It is your parents' responsibility to find solutions to the money problem, not yours. You are 14. You need to eat well in order to keep functioning, plus at your age you're still growing. It's reasonable to expect that you not waste food. (None of us should.) However, it's not OK to be going without.
Could there be additional reasons why you're starving yourself? Do you feel undeserving of eating? Just a couple of questions for you to consider.
Sending you a message. Big hugs.