Great Weekend...

Well we went to Missouri and visited the boyfriend and his kids.  Started out really ugly as soon as we got there me and him were arguing about stuff, didn't help I had a huge headache for over an hour on the drive to get there and not have any aspirin so I was kind of irritated anyways.  We went to Walmart after we both calmed down and little bit and made up our dinner plans for most of the weekend.  We were suppose to talk but we didn't get to do all the talking we wanted to although we were able to talk about future plans and schooling.  He admitted to me that he has been taking testosterone pills because his levels were really low, they have been for over 5 years and he started them about a month ago and since then he's been making lots of changes.  He admitted that he feels different and sees things a little differently.   I was amazed at some of his changes like this weekend he got onto his daughter because she mouthed off to me.  He NEVER had before, not once.  He got onto her about talking back to me and that she better never do it again.  Standing up for me to them is a big deal.  The house was spotless.  Not that it's a bad thing but he's never kept the house clean.  He would have the kids clean things but never check on it so it was half way done all the time.  He used to clean like crazy but seemed like he gave it up about 5-6 years ago.  He's suddenly worried about how clean things are and making sure things look good.  He's even been trying to fix his vehicle and clean it out really good.  So I was really impressed.  We also celebrated our Valentines this weekend.  I got him an inversion table and one of those really big cards.  He really liked both, I put extra effort in the card such as posting quotes and adding pictures and such.  He got me a really beautiful necklace.  Now when I say beautiful, I mean really really pretty.  On accident he left the price tag on it, $70.  Now he's not spent that much money on me in what seems to be FOREVER.  Literally it's been small presents here and there nothing like this.  On Saturday he wanted to go out to eat and bowl a few games for us to hang out. The whole weekend we talked small talk and about future plans, what we kind of want and such.  Everything was really lax and the talk was meaningful.  My daughter ended up getting sick Sunday so we spent an extra night and came back today.  Besides her getting ill I had an amazing weekend with him and all the kids.  Everyone had such a good time hanging out. Makes me wish things could be that way all the time.