Got to do a little venting

Ok, there are not many times that I go online to vent but this time I have to, I just cant take it anymore. I can have my baby any time now and have been thinking back and forth about what to do if I should trying pumping or just go to formula from the start. I see things on Facebook or online about moms and how they feel about BF. I wasn't able to BF my boys and I was thinking about trying to pump when I have this baby. I felt like such a bad mom when I couldn't nurse my boys and it was really bad when I was a first time mom and told my son to the doctor and he had lost a pound since he was born, so it was like I was starving him because my milk never came in and I was also pumping some to help but that wasn't working either. I just hate it when someone says something bad about a mother that cant BF and they don't know the reason that they cant BF. I have anxiety and depression and if I get on my meds soon after I have my baby I don't know if it will be safe for me to pump anymore. I just hate it when someone talks down about another mother that couldn't do something and the other person doesn't know what really is going on. I mean the person could have a health reason and that they couldn't nurse, they had a boob job done and due to the surgery they cant nurse (my aunt had a reduction done and was told that she would never be able to nurse), meds that the mother has to be on and so many other reasons why that cant nurse their baby. Just because they cant nurse or BF their baby doesn't mean that they should be called a bad mother or that their choice is going to something that will do harm to their baby. Not everyone can BF and I am one of them. I know that my chances of me being able to pump or BF my baby due any day is every low but I don't feel any less a mother or not pumping or BF. So why do people think that its ok for them to talk bad about the ones that cant BF? They may not be able to BF but that doesn't mean that we don't wish that we couldn't have and it doesn't mean that we are any less a mother then the one next to us that is BF. WE ARE ALL MOTHERS, NO MATTER IF WE BF OR FORMULA FEED OUR BABIES. STOP SAYING BAD THINGS ABOUT MOMS THAT CANT BF THEIR BABIES BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON IN THEIR LIFE AND FOR THE REASON THAT THEY CANT. WE ARE ALL HUMANS!!!