good oh so good
things are the best they have been in years. Ex ass got married for the 3rd time and it felt like a weight lifted off. I mow my grass with a smile cause i play my tunes and when a song comes on that relates to our time it makes me realize he isn't my problem now and I know what the outcome will be.
Do I think he is done with me? No I don't. I think somewhere down the line he will try again. After all I am the ONLY woman who has EVER made him leave. I am the only one he couldn't control once I got backbone and took a stand. I must say, I am rather proud of who I am.
I did tell him that I DO NOT want to be his friend. If he doesn't pay his support as ordered, Then I have spoken to a lawyer and I can file contempt charges on my own. And I can demand he appear. So he knows I am serious. I have received monies on time since. With a little extra to make up for the payments he missed.
Aren't you proud of me??
Do I think he is done with me? No I don't. I think somewhere down the line he will try again. After all I am the ONLY woman who has EVER made him leave. I am the only one he couldn't control once I got backbone and took a stand. I must say, I am rather proud of who I am.
I did tell him that I DO NOT want to be his friend. If he doesn't pay his support as ordered, Then I have spoken to a lawyer and I can file contempt charges on my own. And I can demand he appear. So he knows I am serious. I have received monies on time since. With a little extra to make up for the payments he missed.
Aren't you proud of me??
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Wicked proud of you!
thanks KRKing911
I\'m very proud of you too.
thanks trisha
Very proud!
I am very proud of you! You are a shining example of Moving On in a Big Way! xoxo
I truly appreciate all the comments. I have come a long way from 3 years ago and I credit a lot of it to this site. If you think you can\'t or won\'t make it please, please take it from me that it is possible. I struggled every day thinking how I could possibly make it. But when I sat and realized what a big, narcissist ass he was the days got better. Granted I may feel little down here and there but I smile and think \"I could still be where I was instead of the best place I am now.\" It\'s a battle that I won and I claim victory. He is now with some other woman (and I use that word loosely) so she can sit back and think her life is grand. We all know (those who have been there) that it won\'t last. But I don\'t care. i feel good about me and grow so much each day.
I\'m proud of you too!
3x\'s?! Yeah, proves he is a nut case.