giving up power

i don't want 2 do everything.  i give him the responsibilty over things b/c he says that what he wants and i dont want 2 have 2 do everything.  the fairytale romance.....letting go of the dream of what i wanted.  do i nd 2 stay in the house with this man?  if there is one betrayal, then there are more.  there is never just one betrayal.  if someone shows u who they r, believe them.  it wouldnt b so bad 2 leave this house.  its got leaks and issues gallor.  if i want him 2 leave the home ill nd a lawyer.  he wont go voluntarily.  shd i stay just 4 the sake of having help?  thats all i get.  hes not totally reliable...he is however semi reliable when it comes 2 the children.  i can stay here 4 now so as not 2 make a sudden change, but i can be looking for another place 2 live.  i cld stay until i can afford 2 buy.  i think paying rent is financially stupid.  if i can live somewhere that i own thats better.  if i can handle it.  i think i can.  i have all this time.  more freedom will only make it easier.  if not then ill reevaluate.