getting ready to go out in public! eek.

I have a lunch date today, one which I wish I hadn't made. It is with a guy I had gone on some dates with, and unfortunately slept with. I don't feel that he has been very respectful of me. The last time we hung out, he came over to watch a movie. It was a work night for me, and I needed to get to bed somewhat early. He ended up not leaving until 2am, even though I kept telling him I needed to get to bed. Needless to say, with my Geodon hangover, I didn't make it in to work the next day.Also, my period is late. This isnt anything new, as I didn't even have one from Sept till December. But, I took meds to remedy that and got it back in Dec. So, now that it is January and it hasn't come yet, I am worried. And, I have reason to be. I am not very good at standing up for myself when it comes to insisting on using protection, and now I am worried about being pregnant. I am going to get a test today. And, I am taking a lot of herbs to try to bring on my period.Praying.....