Genders =)
So, my last entry multiple people said they hoped I would still update. I wasn't going to in hopes of preventing hurting anyone still going through a hard time, but I thought I would share our little gender reveal. This is pregnancy related so please feel free to skip. So, DH and I didn't want to do some extravagant gender reveal due to the cost of having people over and food and blah blah. So, DH and I decided we would still have them write it down on an envelope and we would go out to dinner and open the envelope at dinner.
We chose a restaraunt that is special to us, we had our rehearsal dinner there before our wedding and they have amazing food. So, we get there and DH tells the hostess we have reservations. (Meanwhile, it's a tuesday and it's pouring outside. Pretty sure reservations are not necessary). The hostess goes, "oh my god we are so excited!" I go, "oh, really?! Why?" She says nothing, but DH has a look. So I know something is going on but I don't know what. We have a fabulous dinner and we are the ONLY ones in the restaurant eating. It was so romantic. So, we pick out desserts and as we're waiting for them to bring them out I tell DH ok, grab that envelope let's go! (A side note I'm convinced it's two boys because I've had zero morning sickness or discomfort of any kind and their heart rates are always the same in the 140's.) I know I know wives tales but still. So, DH is like well let's wait for dessert to come. So suddenly they bring out two cannoli's (not what I chose for dessert but actually one of my favorites) And here, they put icing in the cannoli to determine what the genders are! They video taped us. Meanwhile at the time, I'm SOOOOO confused about how we are supposed to find out with these cannolis. I'm picturing the white ricotta in the middle and just can't wrap my head around this turn of events! lol The waitress goes, just cut into it hunny! So we both cut in at the same time and pink and blue icing......it's a BOY and a GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We were SO shocked!!! I can't believe we are so lucky to be in this position of having twins, but now to be able to experience one of each as well?! I am counting my blessings every single day. I thank god that I have made it to almost 18 weeks with no issues and I pray this streak of luck continues until these babies are born safe and healthy. I think of you ladies constantly. I know the holidays are one of the hardest times of year for infertility. I pray that your time is coming. Hang in there. xoxo
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Congrats! I think I'm missing something from the story though... who knew the gender?? Did your DH know and surprise you or you got the Dr. to write it down and were going to open the envelope together?
Yes! We had an ultrasound that morning and the tech wrote the genders down for us. Then my husband snuck the envelope to the waitress to have them put icing in the cannoli's. He apparently called ahead and asked them if they could do it. haha sorry for the missing details!
So exciting!!! And you are just about halfway there now- that point in the pregnancy helped some of my anxiety settle. What is your actual due date? Are you shooting for 38 weeks?
OMG! I had tears in my eyes as I read this! So exciting, one of each!!! I'm so happy for you and that was just such a touching way to find out. I have to tell you, you are way more patient than I am! Was it a surprise for your husband too when you cut into the cannoli's, or did he know so he called ahead to the restaurant? You are so lucky that you are having such a good pregnancy. Are you showing a bit now?
Hi Becky,
I just wanted to say that i caught up on your blog and i'm so very happy for you! i don't know you, but i think you are wonderful for being so thoughtful of/for those of us still navigating this journey. I am very happy for you and wish you a healthy and easy path going forward. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Thanks ladies!! I'm due 5/18 and hoping to make it to 38 weeks if possible! No dh did not know the genders ahead of time. :) We were both surprised. I am definitely showing now and starting to feel baby boy move!! We are just so over the moon.
Lillie- thank you for your kind words! I hope you're in a good place in your journey. Xoxo
How did I miss this update??!! Congratulations!!!!! This update is making me cry and I am just so happy for you. A boy and a girl - this is so exciting! Love the updates, keep them coming!