Frustrated Again
I hadn't had any issues for almost 3 weeks besides occasional frequent urgency and then the last two days I've been dealing with super frequent urgency again and had several accidents and a few smaller leaks. I am frustrated every time I think that my problems are going away, they come back. I hate that I am 20 and go through stretches where I need to use diapers or other protection. It seems like a problem no one else my age has to deal with. I hate the personal embarrassment I feel when I don't have enough time to make it to a toilet and have an accident even though no one else knows. I am constantly worried that others will find out about my issues and what I am wearing to deal with it.
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Hey there, I’m sorry your going through a hard time right now, I’m often reminded that’s it’s part of the highs and lows we have to experience not that that makes it any easier to deal with. I know the frustration you feel, and probably the resentment as well having to deal with this at such a young age as I’m the same. I maybe a little older than you but like you have had to put up with it since being a child. Try to stay strong, and hopefully sooner rather than later things will get a bit better for you.
Remember your in good company here, so your certainly not alone with this.
The worse part for me is I didn't really have any control issues until the last year or two I just dealt with urgency but never really had accidents so in some ways that makes it even more difficult to deal with
Sometimes you just have to realize its best to wear something even if you think your ok, accidents aren't called accidents because we plan them.
Maybe try to accept your weakness and wear protection. You may try to consider your diaper like normal underwear. In my case it helped a lot.