fricken pissed off

I cannot believe the nerve a member here has. I'm writing it in my journal because I do not want to direct any negative comments directly at them because then i'd be no different than that person. Who tells someone that their husband/boyfriend is cheating on them and that they're just sitting by?!!! Then using their past as an excuse for being so rude and mean. I've been through a lot in my life, I hold a lot of grudges. But I don't take it out on strangers who are here to seek help and comfort. This member is making personal attacks, yes we can ignore the  member but they can still make comments on our posts that are nothing short of bullying and personal attacks. I've reported this to DS and hopefully something is done about it. I know i'm not the only person that has reported this member.