feeling rage

i don't know how to wind down right now.


I want to call my Dad to calm myself

but I want to respect his space too.

My friend is also not

around.

After we spoke today with my therapistI had a good journaling inspiration

and I am trying to be self sufficient - but I wish I had someone

to 'let my hair down' with.

I know we all must go through moments like this.

It's like I just feel angry and and stressed and hot, firey and splintered inside.

Writing this helps.

I'll watch some Judy Garland or Liza Minelli on youtube.

That usually helps me turn the frown upside down.

Sending peace and wishes for a good week for you.

I get a haircut tomorrow! Can't wait!

 

peace xx

Mark

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malibumark
malibumark

when things get too structured I freak out and need randomness and humanity
when they get too random I need order....life will always have turbulence it just
blows when I feel this way - but this too shall pass.
GTTMbutstillme
GTTMbutstillme

I think journaling and watching shows help with anger issues, at least until we calm down enough to deal with them in other ways.

I understand about needing both structure and randomness.
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks GT!!
arfie
arfie

speaking for none but myself, anger is an inherent part of that inability to relax. i need to get physical to break the anger piece of that cycle. if i catch it early enough, a walk is physical enough to channel the anger.

for what it's worth
feeling trapped by rigid circumstances is one of my triggers. spontaneous bits of mischief can help stir that pot.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

Big hug sweetie

I was going to suggest some kind of physical activity as well

It's nice that light of heart entertsinment can help

I have a few go to shows that always make me smile

I hope that you rest well tonight...xo
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Arfie and Jan!