Feeling helpless!!!!
my partner is an alcoholic, he's been sober before but has relapsed for the past month, he's never been horrible to me always treated me like a queen but lately he's showing signs of aggression not towards me but throwing and breaking stuff in our home and he's been so horrible to me with his words I feel like he doesn't love me or want me and it's breaking my heart. I have no one to confide in as I'm very much a 'our business is ours' type person and I'm worried he maybe judged, when he's sober he's wonderful in every way provides for us and we have fun together now he lives on the sofa with his wine and I feel like I'm watching him drink himself to death, he won't get help from our Drs and is drinking away our money I don't know what to do.
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Sounds a lot like my life! When my partner is sober he's great but the sober times are becoming less and less again. It's hard thinking that they love the alcohol more than you, or thats how it seems to me anyway. Hope you're ok x
It's so hard watching him the way he is he's on 5 bottles of prosecco a day nearly £40 drinking away our money he can't go to work so he's drinking our saved funds ahhhhhh so frustrating mate I feel like I'm in a nightmare wandering if it will end. How are you coping? X
So glad I plucked up the courage to join a forum and get talking about my life x